Safety Plan
One of the most important things you can do to insure that you stay safe is to have a safety plan!
If you are still with your partner...
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Have a safe place to go if there is an argument—avoid rooms with no exit (bathroom), or rooms with weapons (kitchen).Make a list of safe people to contact.
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Keep money with you at all times.
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Memorize all important telephone numbers.
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Establish a code word or sign so that family, friends, neighbors, teachers or coworkers know when to call for help.
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Keep important papers with you such as social security cards, birth certificates, etc…
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Don’t try to argue or reason with your partner. You can’t change your partner’s behavior.
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If your partner hits you, protect your face with your hands and arms. If knocked down, curl up in a ball to protect your head, face and stomach.
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Back the car in the driveway and keep it filled with gas. Keep the driver’s door unlocked and keep an extra car key hidden inside the car.
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Contact our crisis line – 706.885.1525 – for help.
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Keep your cell phone fully charged.
If you have left your partner...
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Change your phone number and screen your calls.
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Save and document all contacts, messages, injuries or other incidents involving the batterer.
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Change locks, if the batterer has a key.
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Avoid staying home alone.
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Plan how to get away if your batterer shows up.
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If you have to meet your former partner, do it in a public place.
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Notify school, work and childcare contacts that you have left your abusive partner.
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Vary your routine.
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Call our crisis line– 706.885.1525 – for help in making your personal safety plan